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It's only "harassment" if you've told someone to stop.

I like to say we are not the most STD infected in Sweden Sarah 😑😩

i usually agree w mosh on most things but he's outta pocket dying on the greatful dead hill lmaoo like whattt? i went to see jewel when i was in 5th grade w my dad and some girl behind us kept yelling "penis!!!" and i was so embarrassed. and that was jewel in like '98. can't even imagine a dead show, IN VEGAS, in 2024... wayyy too much for a 6yo.

I love the name Laoise, was hoping Ainsling went that way but Saoirse is still cute <3 mazals.

I didn't know much about Todd, but he is a mensch. I'm a fan!

Except Eddie Murphy’s leather suits are iconic, very dated but iconic! 🤣🥰

most actual argument of the podcast?

You’re not crazy, Natasha. Moshe is totally wrong on this. And based on the comments, that’s the consensus.

Moshe is so annoying at the start of this episode. Please put a stop to the weaponized incompetence bit, in general. I would HATE to turn around and see a 6 year-old at a Grateful Dead show. Let it be a place for adults to get loose, like Natasha correctly assumes… I would start being so unpleasantly conscious of my behavior if I knew a little sponge brain was standing right there at one of these things.

The only place for a kid in Las Vegas is Circus Circus and Excalibur Hotel.

Sorry tash I agree w mosh on this one

i come back to this ep often well im working, its one of your best!

Ian Edward's original take on Ukraine is right on. Love him!

Moshe, what you start describing at 42:44 is called Radical Acceptance. And I 100% agree with you that this is what she needs to do in order to continue having a healthy relationship with her dad. She needs to accept this gross attribute of his for what it is and move on. It’s an incredibly hard thing to do but it will set her free in the end.

She doesn’t have to have your childhood though.

Moshe will not lose an argument sometimes

I love when they have real arguments like this because it makes it so real and people relate differently to each person……….. but Natasha has a point, and yeah it’s fear based, a 6 year old at show like that seems inappropriate

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I'm with you Natasha! ❤ You're using your mom intuition and that's great!

I 100% agree with Mosha in terms of always be direct when communicating with others and do so with tact. Problems dont get solved by keeping things to yourself or letting it simmer till it boils over.

Moshe I COMMAND you to return to Vegas and go see the PUPPETRY OF THE PENIS…. I am full team Natasha when it comes to Vegas, but while stuck there once, I got me and my husband tickets for puppetry of the penis and…. Just thank me later.

I don't see forsee the last caller staying with that guy. He seems to have a narrow view of how relationships work since he's basing everything on his only relationship as a teenager. She'll be happier with someone who's more mature.

Just want to chime in and say my dad is a dead head and he would take us to shows from when we were newborns up until we were toddlers, and it was honestly fine! He stopped taking us when we got too old to get free admission.

I usually agree with Moshe but for bringing a 6 year old to a Greatful Dead show? Hellll no. If I was at a show I don’t want to look over and see a 6 year old. Let her be a kid and do kid things. I went to my first concert (U2 at a football field in nosebleed seats) when I was 12 and even that felt a little intense for me. I think kids shouldn’t go to general concerts until at least 12 or 13. It’s just too much and the kid doesn’t give a shit about going to a concert younger than that anyways.

LOL omg... i live in vegas & used to work at cosmopolitan, there's a cocktail waitress who resembles halle berry😂

Have always brought my kids to festivals during the day time to expose them to different artists and music and love how diverse they are now at 8&9 years old. Just got back from the Northlands festival and they had they best time, and made lots of friends. If I could afford to bring them to the Dead at the sphere I absolutely would

Grateful Dead argument: I love your enthusiasm, Moshe- but I agree with Natasha. 🤣 I could see bringing a child to a Rainbow Gathering before bringing her to a Grateful Dead concert tbh.

No.

Wow Moshe was insufferable in the beginning of the episode. Who the f*** wants a little kid around while you’re trying get lit at a rock concert?😢 😂!!!! This reminds me of the time my mom thought it was okay to take my little brother to a Cabo bar restaurant for dinner. The first thing we saw when we walked in was a girls getting their bare breasts blasted with tequila.

The caller needs to give her dad a break. It's not like he groomed his gf or went on a dating app specifically looking for a "sugar baby". She's an adult and it sounds like they met in an organic way. Meanwhile the pickings are probably slim when you're an older musician. Also, she mentioned she's put off by the thought of his big body on a younger woman, but who enjoys the visual of their parent being physically intimate? And what does his body being big have anything to do with it?

Ugh Moshe There’s no world in which a 6 year old should go to a Grateful Dead concert at the sphere in Las Vegas. I don’t know your kid but if seeing a butt at the pool was that confusing to her, going to that concert…I mean…clearly. Why even engage in the argument? #TeamNatasha

All my hippie friends bring their kids to concerts and I fucking hate it. As a concert goer I am very irked when I see kids at shows.

The Dead Show was probably the most wholesome function in Vegas that night. The sphere graphics alone would be pretty cool for a kid to watch. First time I've sided with Moshe ;)

I have the exact same feelings as Moshe regarding Vegas, I can't help it lol

tallish girls felt seen today

From a pschychological perspective, radical acceptance of the pervy father is the way forward. This means accepting he might not change, is very insecure, making wrong decisions and nothing can be done about it, and that anger only hurts yourself. HOWEVER the AA stuff is for alcoholics who might have hurt people and are battling addiction. Not a general form of recovery. It would be totally inappropriate for the daughter to apologize for her correct feelings of anger, disgust and trying to have reasoned with the father initially. She is feeling the disgust of borderline incest which is natural. No one wants to feel like she is so close to what her parent desires sexually. Strong boundaries are needed, but in my experience the father will see the boundaries as judgment and if it continues the relationship will slowly deteriorate... And maybe end. For a man that age to date someone that young is borderline abusive especially when thinking young people don't reach brain maturity until 25. There is an unhealthy power dynamic for sure and even though we can love a parent, seeing them behave so unethically is totally heartbreaking and it takes time to process the feelings of loss and mourning, and sometimes letting go forever.

I agree with Natasha about The Gratwful Dead concert. Wouldn’t want my kid in a crowd where there’d be more weed smoke than oxygen

also, there were kids at the sphere! Deadheads always bring kids

dead head here the grateful dead and jam bands do that to all of us heads by never playing the same sets twice so you go to multiple nights its not just cause they're in Vegas the dead did this before ticket gouging. The sphere tickets are overpriced but that's what the Dead has always done never play the same set twice!

Having to parent your parent is sooo hard! 😖 it was really helpful to hear the first callers experience and the advice given to them 🫶

Moshe you’re being crazy, leave your kids at home! People DO act erratic on droogs. As a festi goer. Leave your kids home until they are old enough to understand people who are not sober

Love the podcast, love Moshe and Natasha but sometimes Moshe’s “I’m always the smartest person in the room” mentality is draining and you can see it on Natasha’s face. Someone who won’t let up until you’ve agreed with them or changed your viewpoint to match theirs is so annoying. Natasha doesn’t have to justify her feelings and 6 is young for any concert let alone a Grateful Dead concert. Moshe seems to believe every child should have the childhood he had like all of the influences he had as a child grew him into such a perfect adult.

Vegas tap water is pretty gross 🤢

6 years is way too young Moshe for a rock concert. Natasha is right.

As a mom to a 7yr old daughter, I also don’t believe concerts (any kind) are an appropriate environment for kids.

There are a lot of stores where you can scan items to find the price. So it’s really not that conspicuous.

Podcasts are old. Dying?

Moshe was relentless, when he really disagreed with the immediate shutdown, "red line, no". I agree with Natasha on this one, but if a six year old was a fan of the music, then I would consider.

So, I want to do a quick analysis of this fight (and it is a fight-- just enough background to earn your attention: my parents never had a conversation like this. They just broke up but I watched it happen and now I'm a genius). The players: Moshe: The world hit me hard. I learned so much from terrible hardship. Natasha: I've seen a lot. Most of my bad experiences seemed fine at first but I was mostly concerned with being the best version of fine with it that I could be. The differences: Moshe: Being dropped into hardship made me strong. Look at me! I'm better now than the seeker I was. I was lost. But hardship got me here. Wife. Child. Progress. The goal! There is no husband, no daddy, no alive! without struggle! Natasha: I tried to make strong men happy. It felt like comfort when they took care of me. Me! Why me? Because I met their needs. Whatever the fuck they wanted, I made me disappear into them. That's how I made it through my struggle. Then, I made a decision. I want a family. For real. Not a joke. I want a kid. That's the most important thing in the world to me. I will never let the world treat my kid like it went after me. Moshe: I need to grow up. I can do this. Of course, I want a little me. I want to see myself in the yard looking to me for guidance. I am more capable of guidance than the average dad. I was dropped into hardship and I came out the other end (super duper hung up on family issues and my own semi-formed semi-adult ideas about what survival plus growth looks like). I've been to therapy (from a child's perspective onward). Have you?! Natasha: I'm going to helicopter parent a little, I guess. Not in a bad way. I just want her to know that whatever life tries to do to her she always knows that I'll be here to answer her questions no matter what. She's safe and my experiences will never touch her. Moshe: Then let her fall down next to the fuck tent. She'll stand up. I'll be there. Like I was there for me! Natasha: I want to please you. It goes against my being to be in this horrible moment with the father of my child. But, no. She should learn from careful guidance. I walked a road to get here and she will not walk that same road. I won't let it happen. Moshe: (sarcasm) Natasha: (listening with a look that tells the story). And scene. Don't break up. And don't hang your version of what worked for you on your kid. And certainly not against your partner. Probably don't take your kid to Burning Man. But take your kid camping. See if she falls in love with struggle. Most kids don't. But you can change that. Not with fuck tents or Mommy and Daddy fighting. Find out who she is before you fuck it all up over who you want her to be. I know Moshe will hate this because he has a stronger voice about overcoming struggle. But this year's BM (tee hee) doesn't have to be the fight for life you're making it out to be. You've got a partner who desires safety for her child right now... Can you live in a world where she's ten before you bring her to BM? Twelve? Your partner doesn't want a dirt angel (I just assume that's a BM-ism). She'll be stronger filtered through the two of you versus being dragged back and forth. End rant. Edit: I wrote that in the first ten minutes of listening. I hit play all satisfied and then Moshe got worse. This is avoid-the-topic bad.

Be VERY CAREFUL about what you’re doing at self checkout!! I just spent the last six months in court because I was discounting items at self check out. And this was all food items. I had to do 20 hours of community service. And trying to get someone to accept me to volunteer for 20 hours was a nightmare. Once you tell them that you have a theft charge they don’t want to let you volunteer for their organization. Now I have this charge on my record forever and it’s hard to get a job. And I wasn’t stealing for the thrill of it, I literally could not afford food at the time. And I paid for everything in my basket. I just rang up red grapes as bananas because they were cheaper that kind of thing.